the way u have sex, it's like totally one-sided, it's like I'm not even there. If you wanna lose yourself in sex, you have to lose yourself in another person, and she has to lose herself in you. It's a two-way thing!
Don't you just take the past & put it in a room in the basement & lock the door & never go in there? That's what I do. And then you meet someone special and all you want to do is toss them the key, say "Open up step inside." But you can't because it's dark and there are demons.